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To collaborate or not to collaborate? That is the question

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The notion of working with your ex partner for the good of your family at the end of your relationship when he/she is the last person you want to talk to might be a tall order. In fact it is a notion that you would immediately dismiss if I suggested it to you but, as a collaboratively trained family lawyer and divorce solicitor in Newcastle, I would ask you to give it serious thought and not rule it out.

Even if you have fallen out of love with each other and/or hurt each other badly, you are both still the best people to work out the practical and financial arrangements for you and your family particularly if you have had children together.

In an ideal world, children would always get their wish that their parents stay together forever but sadly we do not live in an ideal world.

Parents do split up and they need to make arrangements for their children. All the research shows that the children of parents who find a way to work together after they separate/divorce do so much better than parents who don’t.

It really isn’t a difficult concept so why is it that separating parents can’t always grasp it?

I suppose that behaving rationally, reasonably and constructively is the last thing you might feel like doing when you feel angry and hurt. I can say with absolute certainty that your ex and your children would really appreciate it if you parked all those feelings and stepped up to and sat at the collaborative table to talk.

 

 


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